Sprinkling of stars ... candle for cake tomorrow...  a day to celebrate despite what I will be told ... because I am celebrating your life each day ... as we know ... and only we know ... nothing can change that ... there is a serenity in loss ... no-one understands a loss of a spouse unless been there ... I am a one of many widows who are mainly a lot older than me ... my mum and her now too widowed twin have been spending time together ...  she is rather drawn to Kernow too ... it is more peaceful to grieve there ... I am not wrong in that ...